Why A Puppy Love Is Puppy

I believe many of us are quite familiar with puppy love. It's a term used to define a relationship that commonly strikes those in the early teens or younger. It blooms without much thoughts and ends without much thoughts, it could have started with no reason and end without any reason at all and it's irrational at many times.



Why is it said to be irrational? consider this scenario...
You saw a girl that looks pretty hot, pretty funny and you had a crush for this girl, while she might not even acknowledge your existance!! Next, you try your best to find a way to approach her. You stalk her on facebook and blog like a maniac, so that you get to know more about her life and her mode. You ask her friends for her msn and phone number. You send her some stupid jokes and tell her your identity. If you are famous and good looking enough, she might reply you and you reply her and she reply you and .........After some time, this intense emotion between the both of you starts to grow!!  You chat on msn, comment on facebook and you try your best to attract her attention, by asking her how is she doing daily.


On the first page of this love story, the both of you will be so much in love with each other, There's a strong affection between the both of you where you feel like the both of you are bonded together, and this love story is likely to have a happy ending. However, is it so? Nah, there's a missing piece to complete this love-puzzle. As time passes, no matter how bright the future of this love you thought it could be, too bad, it's short-lived.. the reason behind this is simple, because you dont really know this very lover of yours well!! It's a digital world now, everything can online gao dim(done). You knew her through SMS, through Facebook, through MSN..... but before you start a relationship, did you spend some quality time with her where the both of you can have some face-to-face conversations? Do you look straight into her beautiful eyes passionately, and let her know that how much you love and cherish her when you talk to her? Do you really know what's the atmosphere when you two together? i don't think so~

The results are, from how i see it, most of these puppy-lovers walk together with an invincible "barrier" or "wall" between the both of them, sit together and they will be busying texting on their phone or looking at different directions when their lover is just right in front of them!!



 p/s: Doing nothing but staring somewhere far far away without any focus. Is this familiar to you?


However, despite all that, why is puppy love that memorable? Most people can hardly forget what they did for their puppy lover, what they had experienced together and all those sweet rememberings that they shared. The reason is yet simple, because puppy love is not COMPLICATED!! it's simple and sweet! You see, when we grow older and older, everything becomes perplexed. If you are to kao(chase after) a girl, you have to meet some requirements. You cant be a fresh grad, your father got to be a "gold mine", you cant be a clerk/office boy of a  company, you cant earn just ngam ngam(merely enough) for your living. All these can't be covered with no matter how many jokes. I guess that's the reason why the population of man is greater than woman. Because one man with lot of $$ can have a few women which is real real good, while most of us can only look at the computer screen stalking others profile, enving how perfect is others' lifes.




This is sad. Herald sweet puppy love!!

Take care,
Jimmy and West